TJ is showing his true colours, he really doesn’t give a shit about her feelings and tries to logic his way out of everything (with suspect logic). Kimberley is a handful, in her own words, but that household is allied against her and fuckface TJ just tells her to leave whenever she talks about her feelings.

What gets me about this whole situation is I think he really thought she’d just comply with the requirements despite being kept in the dark on purpose/aka lied to- I know it’s a lot when westernized women from the US go to countries where women are in a more housewife centric role but if she did ask several times like she said and he skirted the issue this is 100% on him and her behavior even if intense is valid imo.