• My childhood home had many many problems, but one thing that wasn’t lacking was physical affection. I don’t know of it’s a Cuban thing or what, but almost every other family seems very dry to me. Like people that don’t kiss when they get home, sit touching each other on the couch, wait to eat together, are really uptight about nudity, …that is weird af to me. It gives me the impression that those family members are buddies/roommates. I still have to make conscious assessments in my head to understand relationships between family. I guess the part of the brain that learns family relationship norms is solidified pretty early.