One thing that I’ve learned from this fan base is that they have to hate someone. Usually it’s the more outwardly offensive person in the couple. And she’s more “annoying” than TJ, who’s pretty docile, so they chose her. But I agree. I think given how much she had to put up with, I would be doing the same thing as her. And there’s not enough “rEsEarcHiNg tHe CuLtUrE” In the world that would prepare me for what she had to put up with