Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
I do agree that she needs some help with her emotional regulation, but honestly if I was told after being lied to for however long they’ve been together that oh by the way the rest of your life is going to consist of daily servitude to my family I would do a lot more than scream. The reaction to the apartment might have been a bit much, but at the same time he truly wasn’t listening to her. Still, for stuff like that she could really use some coping skills or something.