Honestly, most days I’m agreeing with what Danielle is saying when it comes to finances, but the most recent episode (13/11/23) when Danielle asks Yohan to pay half the rent, plus bills etc. I think was super unfair. She has an American job, which pays American wages. Yohan is/was working for Dominican wages.
When Yohan said if he contributes the same he will have nothing left for himself. And I agree with him (if these facts are true)
In my personal opinion, I think financial contributions should be split by % of income. My partner (33M) contributes more to our household because he earns more. If I (29F) contribute the same, I wouldn’t have any personal savings or extra money for myself. When I was earning more, I was contributing to the household more. It goes both ways…
Maybe he should learn English if he wants success working in America, not many job opportunities for no college degree, no skills, no experience and no english, it’s hard for people WITH all those qualities to get jobs in America. For coming to the US to be his master plan he’s really dropped the ball on preparations. I don’t think he will have much luck ever getting a visa now especially with the footage from the show.
I bet Danielle is relieved she didn’t bring his ungrateful a$$ to the US now, I think with enough effort, devotion and work on their relationship and trust issues she’d have gotten the visa and moved back eventually but he showed his true colors. Her whole NY is too expensive excuse is true but there’s a million other places to live where the COL is less. Great job Yohan.
He is a shining example of why a large quantity of Americans think foreigners just use citizens for green cards.