deinterlacing filter causes it to look like picture 2 [bottom screenshot] but no de-interlacing leads to picture 1

1 is slightly better but is awful in movement as you can see

I’ve been trying to find a solution the past few days, is there one?

picture 1: https://imgur.com/a/r7b5pk3

picture 2: https://imgur.com/a/cuvZqCQ