I can’t tell if the producers are just picking couples that have major secrets for the drama. But I can’t imagine being in a long-distance relationship in which all you can do is talk on the phone — and yet when you start the 90 days you are only just finding out major life details about your partner??

  • Gino didn’t tell Jasmine about quitting
  • Jasmine lied about the butt implants
  • Nikki only admitted she was trans during a fight
  • Sophie hadn’t told Rob about her ovary cyst surgery
  • Ashley didn’t tell her fiancé she was a witch
  • Her partner (sorry forgot his name but would never forget Rico MFing Suave) lied to his family about where he was

There might be more as I’m only a few episodes in. It’s just odd to me because I could never keep major life events like that to myself in a relationship. Is that just more normal than I realise??

  • Fluffy_Iron6692B
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    Other than Ashley being a witch, I think it’s easy to conceal everything else because it doesn’t just “come up”

  • SpritzLikeB
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    1 year ago

    I feel like being far away from each other allows them to be pretty delusional and ignore red flags. Same stuff happens on catfish.

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    1 year ago

    I don’t think it’s healthy, but I think that most couples do it. I like to think my husband and I don’t. We’ve been together 15 years and good communication is definitely part of that.

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    1 year ago

    Tj didn’t tell Kim what she’d be expected to do

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    1 year ago

    I can almost understand Sophie not talking about her surgery but not telling him she is bi is a little questionable unless she doesn’t fully trust him or he has used things against her.

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    1 year ago

    No, that’s not normal.

    I would never hide anything like that from my husband and if I did he might not leave but he’d be furious.

    It’s just stupid to hide that shit from your partner. They always find out anyway so why bother?