Don’t ever let someone gaslight you into thinking what Rob the Knob did to Sophie was any less dishonest or selfish than physical cheating is. Physical cheating just hurts most of us in a different way. He didn’t do her any favors by soliciting inappropriate videos from women. He still snuck around behind her back and had sexual interactions with other people… twice. Ultimately, you decide what cheating is in your relationship, but please, don’t believe this “it could’ve been worse 🤷♂️” bullshit.
And maybe slam the door in the face of someone who shows up to apologize with a single rose… for cheating the 2nd time. You could probably do worse 🤷♀️
She should’ve interpreted that as she’s not really important to him. She made it clear if he did it again she’d be done, and he was willing to risk that. I hate that she forgave him, but he’s taking advantage of her naïveté. If she was a bit older or wiser, she would’ve never gotten with him to begin with. He brings nothing but grief.