Seriously, when I saw Ashley doing this my mouth dropped. That was the most passive aggressive, juvenile BS I have ever seen from a grown woman. If you and your partner have issues and you want to talk to them about it, talk to them about it. Don’t call your friend crying while also trying to manipulate your partner and make them feel bad by having your friend chime in on your issues.
You are an adult. If you have an issue with someone, talk to them about it. Don’t call your friend and make them listen to the call so that they feel like shit. It’s a really low thing to do.
I would leave her over that. The level of blatant disrespect is a deal breaker, especially the fact he does not know much English, but he knows enough to understand it was about him, and it was bad. She did that for the sole purpose of demeaning him. No thanks. See her next Thursday.