I have moved so much, sometimes for men; the most isolated I have ever felt is with a partner Even more isolated when I’ve stayed with their family…

Even when I lived in English speaking countries- there is so much cultural isolation. It will make you nuts, I am sorry girl-

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    I agree. She was laughable because she claims to be clairvoyant but didn’t see ANY OF THIS COMING. But I do take isolation and depression seriously and that relationship was not nurturing on his end. And perhaps it is cultural, but even if she spoke the language, I don’t think the MIL and the brother would warm up to her. Especially if Kim was unwilling or unable to fulfill whatever role was expected of her.

    The whole marriage was DOA but it is unfortunate to see that TJ lacks the maturity and compassion to be a loving husband.

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    Why didn’t she prepare herself for the culture she was about to join? I believe she with a google search could have found out wedding traditions and meanings along with a woman’s rule in Indian culture. I couldn’t take it however I would have prepared myself (I don’t think you can until you live it) as much as possible. She,in my opinion, flies by the seat of her pants then doesn’t understand why things aren’t going her way. She needs to go back home

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      I think LIVING in India for a year is pretty informative wouldn’t you say? also her potential husband lying by telling her she will be exempt from all cultural expectations doesn’t help. Google can’t help that he lied to her.

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        I’d say you are right. Doesn’t seams as if she saw things unfortunately when we are happy we let things pass