Honestly - if my husband: -lied to my about my role in the marriage until immediately after the marriage -let his family ice me out -completely disregards my feelings -disregards the fact that I am depressed & tells me it’s a personal problem -gaslight the shit out of me every time I tried to talk about my feelings
I would probably scream too. I hear ya Kimberly! I’m starting to feel manic for her
I really dont care for Kimberly, and honestly prefer TJ over her as far as human beings go, BUT in this case I completely agree with you!!! He clearly lied to her and misled her to believe their marriage would be more of what she is used to a typical marriage in USA being ( equal gender roles, shared housework, etc ), when in reality he knew their life together would be nothing like that. Its totally unfair she wasnt given the choice before marriage to sign up for that kind of life, instead she was tricked into it… Personally if I loved the man, I wouldnt mind at all taking over the traditional Indian daughter in law role ( cleaning, cooking, etc) as long as my mother in law treated me with respect and the family was kind… But Kimberly doesnt strike me as a person who will ever adapt to or enjoy that lifestyle… It was very deceptive of TJ, to say the least.