I just got up from conversation with a couple of older black men, that I said “well I got to go back to work and start cracking the whip.” And it occurred to me then that it was probably a really insensitive stupid thing to say.

Sadly, it hadn’t occurred to me until it’s already said.

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    Speaking of stupid and insensitive, I was in my 20s before someone explained to me that to reference “jewing someone down” on price was not a great thing to say. It seems absurd. I’d just never seen it in writing or thought about it–it was an idiom, that’s it. You want to get a better price, so you jew them down. I guess I thought it was a homonym, if anything, but I didn’t really think about it, at all. Big-time facepalm moment when it clicked for me. Likewise for, “I got gypped.”

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      11 months ago

      Those are the exact two examples for me as well! I thought I was alone in my idiocy!

      Hell, “jewing someone down” was always a positive and admirable thing for me. Guess as a little kid I thought it was complementary to Jews and never thought about it again.

      Not even going to say how long ago it was that I realized the reference to Gypsies. But it was a recent event, and I’m old.

      How about “shyster”? I’m scared to ask…

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      My family always pronounced it “chewing them down,” so I was surprised to see it written the first time. I was probably in college.

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        I thought it was “chewing” too. It’s not a common religion here, and the two words are not homophones with our accent.