Nick calling Devin piggy and then talking about fat . Even though she looks absolutely fine . It’s extremely disrespectful

Not to mention the massive age gaps between both of them 23 Devin to 31 . When you are 23 you are still in your formative years and Nick trying to date her raises a lot of questions .

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  • shinygemzBEnglish
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    9 months ago

    I feel like, he explained what HE meant by it . If his partner is OK with it and approves his definition for HER. I accept it. It my love to care if all parties are fine with it

  • Own-Adhesiveness5723BEnglish
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    9 months ago

    I think a lot of this has to do with cultural differences. In East Asia there is blatant public shaming of people who don’t fit thin body standards. It’s especially bad in South Korea. Look at how people in K pop groups will faint on stage because they don’t eat enough trying to keep themselves thin enough to not get ripped apart. Many trendy clothing brands only have one size because you’re expected to keep yourself within those sizes (although this is less of a struggle because people are much more homogeneous than in Western countries). He comes from a culture without acceptance of plus size bodies, as well as healthier food in general and smaller portion sizes. A regular size fast food meal in Asia is comparable to a kids meal in the US.
    It’s possible he’s just a jerk, but it’s also possible that it’s just a cute nickname and Devin doesn’t have an issue with it, she had several plush pigs on display in her room, so maybe she just likes pigs so he called her piggy? It’s hard to tell since we know production directs a lot of these interactions.

  • take-a-gambleBEnglish
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    9 months ago

    I would end such a relationship but if I was actually fat I’d reflect on it and hit the gym and start a diet.

  • suddenlysilverBEnglish
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    9 months ago

    He is more in love with flicking his ridiculous hair back like he’s fkn Fabio. He gives off “I look in the mirror at myself while I masturbate” vibes. Gross.