I see a lot of people reacting negatively to minorities and leftists breaking down on social media over something seemingly trivial. They will often say “wow they are making us look bad, we need to make sure to stop anyone near me from doing that”
The thing about that though is right wingers will push and push and push. They will spend all day every day harassing someone until they finally break down and have an outburst. It doesn’t matter how much of a model minority you think you are, you have a breaking point. The straw that breaks the camels back doesn’t look significant on its own, that is the entire point. There is no way this will ever look good for us, and there is no way we can all tank it to the face forever. The mentality that these “make us look bad” is exactly the reactionary thought we are trying to fight.
In essence people are seeing reactionary action done in response to our open existence, and thinking preventing our existence to reduce reactionary action is the right way forward. Reactionaries are attacking because it is not what they want. I don’t want a world where reactionaries are content not to fight, that just means they’ve won.
They will get those clips one way or another. They will loot in riots themselves and record it if they have to. They will spew their shit regardless of what we do. The best thing we can do is accept it and actually get shit done.
I see a lot of people reacting negatively to minorities and leftists breaking down on social media
The thing about that though is right wingers will push and push and push. They will spend all day every day harassing someone until they finally break down and have an outburst.
If you don’t spend all day on social media, you can’t be harassed on social media all day. If an online space is so toxic that you are “breaking down” then you have a responsibility to yourself to reassess whether it is actually healthy for you to be spending time in that space. Don’t get hung up on some kindergarten ideas about “fairness” or “they started it”, take a step back and realise that you actually have agency and choice. It is very strange to me that people complain about how toxic social media is and then change absolutely nothing about their own behaviour. Social media is non-essential to life, you do not need to be using it. Particularly not if it is causing you severe mental stress.
This is a fancy way of victim blaming. People don’t deserve to be bullied in any context.