“Don’t have your wedding while we are on vacation” = “They hate me”
“Are you allowed to work with your visa?” = “They hate me because I am not American”
“I found lipgloss in Gino’s car” = “He must be cheating as only a woman who is sleeping with Gino has lipgloss”
I think (as sad as it is) her children have disconnected from her. It is the only way they can cope with someone who is in and out of their lives, bringing types like Gino and that crypto-bro ex from her building and the mood swings at the most innocent of things.