• daggermoon@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Sorry, I thought the implication was that someone intentionally slept with one in. I don’t know how you’d sleep like that.

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      2 days ago

      falling asleep is the easy part, the hard part is waking up with a sore asshole knowing you need to make it worse to make it better

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        2 days ago

        That’s why hard plugs are for short periods of fun times, and soft plugs are for all day / all night usage.

        Speaking from experience.

        • MissGutsy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          21 hours ago

          Don’t do this too often though! Prolonged dilation (>2 hours) can damage your sphincter and give you incontinence in the long run. Probably not a problem if done rarely, but if it happens regularly it can become a problem

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            11 hours ago

            Sadly, there’s a lack of formal studies to determine how often is too often. I think “pay attention to your body” is generally good advice. If anything is sore or hurting, it’s probably time to take a break. Kegel exercises also help keep the sphincter from weakening over time, useful advice even for people who aren’t into butt stuff.

      • pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        2 days ago

        I mean, your hole shouldn’t be sore in the morning unless you’re sizing up with a new plug. Especially not with a stereotypical conical thin necked black silicone one. I’ve slept with plugs with a neck diameter of like 1.25" before