I really only play the quick queue and end up playing tank most of the time. In that role, I appreciate the group’s input in what type of tank they need. And all the heroes are likable and worth playing, so I have no need to push back on their recommendations.
Similar story for healing. I like them all and don’t mind when people have a specific need.
Only time I might dislike the feedback is when it’s based just on not liking that hero — rather than it being based on what the team needs to play better together and win. I think people learn to dislike heroes without understanding their usefulness, or even out of some social/meme culture. Like Orisa is hated by some folks because she’s too good, like it’s cheating to use her. Well, if you need that type of tank style to survive against the enemy comp, avoiding her is really just handicapping yourself. So parsing out real requests from meme requests seems to be important.
I play mostly healers and tanks and get flames for not doing enough DPS when healing. If I’m failing at damage while healing, I have no interest in playing actual DPS. Seems the role most easily compared to enemies.
I believe they are a reddish pink, but the activated parts of the wings only show when using them, during emotes or during the ultimate. When not activated you’d only see the metallic part if the wings. Right? Not 100% since I’ve only seen it in first person.