Boycott list for mod abuse and power trips: lemmy.ml, blahaj.zone | Warning list: lemmy.ca

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  • If you can do that to someone you say you love, I don’t think you love them.

    What? You have serious problems if you believe that. I don’t get what you’re saying. I’m saying using a tool for mutual masturbation (or one at a time) is the same as classical normal masturbation of each other. Both are acceptable and normal in a relationship.

    Not relevant. When discussing techniques for the application of hair products, those with alopecia are not relevant.

    It does when it’s frequent. Also, you’re the one making a generalization, so if you don’t specify, that’s on you

    As for your last paragraph, well I don’t see any link with what I said. Unrelated


  • If the point was the orgasm, mutial masturbation would be faster, easier, cleaner, etc.

    Isn’t this exactly what it is? “use my vibrator with a partner” either means the partner uses it or stimulates them while they do

    People can achieve touchless orgasm if they have the psychological/emotional investment. If she’s not cumming, I question the relationship, not the sex.

    Let’s ignore all medical and social reasons as to why someone can’t cum; it must surely be because the relationship between the two partners!

    Frankly I don’t really get your comment. What I’m saying is: using a tool for sex isn’t bad as long as you’re doing it together?