Are they still neon? I would’ve thought led was more common. Either way thank you for the work you do.

Jesus christ the legs. They really wanna fuck horses huh?

That’s like a quarter of lemmy.

Jesus christ. Here I was imagining something like vortex mods or steam workshop, didn’t realize modding was incentivized beyond creative passion.

Child labor?

Looks like it’s too late. I Googled bullet heaven and it took a few minutes to find the actual game, which is ironically a bullet hell game.

Mixing it up can be fun. “Gosh fucking darn it” usually gets some sideways looks.

Alright kids, say goodbye to gam gam.

Imagine holding on to that for 30 years. Holy shit.

I guess it’s dependant on clothing. 3 hours in the arctic in a hoodie? Dead. 3 hours in the desert naked? Heat stroke maybe, though enough water would keep you going while you turn into a lobster.

Yeah nevernind it’s a fucking stupid rule of thumb.

I wish you the best of luck. You may have to shop around for therapists. Online or in person shouldn’t make a huge difference, it’s more about finding one you click with.

I don’t have any specific advice for the likes thing, but I’ll share my experience as a possible explanation. I am pretty shit at verbal affirmations. Like “I’m dating you and kissing and cuddling you of course I don’t need to tell you you’re pretty” which is obviously THE WRONG ANSWER but it took some effort for me to even realize that. Learning each other’s love languages may also help you two communicate.

Communicate! If something he does makes you feel bad, the worst thing you can do is bottle it up until it explodes. Tell him how it makes you feel straight up. Don’t say “stop following insta skanks if you love me,” say something like “it makes me feel insecure when you like photos of women that don’t look like me.” Basically tell him what you told us.

The fact that he was dming some insta girl is (to me personally as a man) kind of weird, but the fact that he stopped when he started talking to you is a good sign.

Lastly, you can almost certainly benefit from individual therapy. This is not me calling you crazy. I had trouble getting close to my now girlfriend due to previous relationship issues. Therapy helped me process those feelings and also understand the importance of communication.

Promote this guy to O-5 council immediately.

When your man is on the spectrum

Mutual friend got my girlfriend a book about being in a relationship with someone on the spectrum as a joke. Turns out it’s been a huge help in communicating with me. Oops.

Wait, does that mean it is imperialist when China does it too?

Gog keeps hitting me with admin access requests when I’m not even doing anything on it. Repeatedly. Until I kill the task. Not a fan.

I saw that live. I remember thinking “man that was a good show they should be wrapping up soon” but it was like halfway through. They played a 3 hour set. Insane.

You’d have to tie the wallet number to the person. Not sure how much effort that takes, but it’s a good deal more anonymous than using a credit card.

Their standards mutually exclude each other.