Ill break your questions down from top to bottom, and any references I make you might not understand ill explain after.
Now to answer my references what is proton? proton is a compatibility layer for Linux that lets windows games run on Linux OS’s by using wine (and other tools) to fix issues that would normally cause games to fail booting/running.
What is X11/Wayland? They are Graphic Platforms that your GPU uses to essentially “render” or “utilize” your GPU in simple terms, but in technical terms its a window system.
If you want a mostly seamless experience in Linux, I would recommend Nobara, its a distro based off Fedora made by GloriousEggroll who made Proton GE (hence GE). Its kernel/librarys/repositorys and such are made in a way where its meant for gaming. It does lack in terms of being up to date compared to bleeding edge distros, but its not by a bad amount. It still updates frequently as of right now, but theres times where it lacks updates for a few months.
Pop_OS! is another Distro aimed towards gaming if you want to check that out.
I say this to any Tech owner…learn…your…tech. It is not good to know almost nothing when using stuff like tech, as you’ll end up running circles and confusing others when you need help.