I think they are upset less about the fact that I want to go to college (I am currently doing online courses that I do not enjoy at all) but more of the fact that I would like to leave them in search of life, as they may see it as a personal offense. As for the military part, I’m unsure if the financial aid will go that far as it was mentioned before that I may be cut off due to some sort of government laws (I have no idea about this, but its been mentioned before.) Anyways, thanks for the reply.
Replying to both; I did take Korean lessons at my school for 1.5 years, however I went to a very studious type of international school where I wasn’t using any of the Korean due to staying indoors and studying (+ other personal issues). Also I have faced discrimination heavily in the country as I do not look Korean at all (lol) and locals have sometimes straight up chosen to ignore me … :[