That’s a shame. Although living in that van all those years probably didn’t help.
That’s a shame. Although living in that van all those years probably didn’t help.
I’m trying to coin the phrase distopia.
To make it clear we’re talking about this dystopia we’re living in now.
I’m also open to it meaning a world where everyone’s disses are completely on point.
Far too much does this now and it’s a short term win, long term loss.
Die hard fans of the material maybe enjoy it for a bit but then get sick of it. New people won’t get into it as huge chunks of it are meaningless to them.
The quote. “Resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die”
It’s like you’re doubling down on what happened. Either they didn’t know/care it hurt at the time or wanted to hurt you but now you’re using your energy to extend the hurt.
When you start getting angry about it acknowledge it but then do something positive for yourself.
The sunk cost fallacy is a very easy way to get stuck being miserable.
Sometimes a drastic change might be painful at the time but will be much better for you overall.