This is a beautiful explanation and so spot on. I think you’re completely right.
I think it’s for the same reason that I like getting immersed in a new fantasy book. It’s so exciting and new, and a new relationship in a book with all of the crazy passion and butterflies does the same thing. I have found myself wondering on occasion why I don’t even feel that same spark (in past relationships too), but it’s because I’ve been with my partner for so long that of course we don’t feel that same crazy passion that we did in the beginning, that’s normal.
At the end of the day, I know I’d choose my partner over anyone else every day. He tries so hard and is my best friend, which makes me feel so much more guilty about feeling this way at all. But thank you so much for providing this explanation, it makes total sense.
This is a beautiful explanation and so spot on. I think you’re completely right.
I think it’s for the same reason that I like getting immersed in a new fantasy book. It’s so exciting and new, and a new relationship in a book with all of the crazy passion and butterflies does the same thing. I have found myself wondering on occasion why I don’t even feel that same spark (in past relationships too), but it’s because I’ve been with my partner for so long that of course we don’t feel that same crazy passion that we did in the beginning, that’s normal.
At the end of the day, I know I’d choose my partner over anyone else every day. He tries so hard and is my best friend, which makes me feel so much more guilty about feeling this way at all. But thank you so much for providing this explanation, it makes total sense.