Id say it’s also like the coach’s fault for losing even if they’re not on the pitch but you’d answer that Golf is not a bicycle so how do you even analogies mate?

It’s not always my death for me, but I often have very, very violent dreams that include fist- or knife fights at the very least. I feel you, it’s absolutely horrendous.

Maaaaate same. There was this one girl I dated whom I’ve told I just don’t feel like doing what she felt like doing that night and she said “Alright, we can just watch some more eps of <show we were watching>” and I broke down right there and then.

I ended up forcing my own options on her which isn’t healthy in itself but we could and can talk about this and it’s so weird.

Sure, if you’re homeless you save on rent. But then do you eat out every day? Spend time in bars instead of on your couch?

Living in your car might be feasible in North America but good luck trying that in Europe. Also good luck keeping a bank account let alone a job without an address.

If I want to live close to my job without paying rent or taking a loan I gotta save about 1M Euros and be lucky with finding a place. That’s a lot of skipped Frappuccino lattes.

I mean some of your advice is sound but honestly a lot of it reads like “step 1: have money, step 2: don’t have no money”

Very much depending on where you are. Pretending to commit or to have committed a felony (idk the minutiae of translations; Straftat in German) is one in itself over here. Fake it and instantly make it, yay!