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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • Online dating has worked well for me but it requires some really strong mental barriers so you dont get overwhelmed. Most apps have some sort of ‘you got liked by X’ counter which feels really degrading and destroyes your self esteemed as a guy if youre not confident. Inversely, as a woman you get so many likes you drown in a swamp with 0 ineresting things, like a never ending tide.

    And bios are just … The worst. I Am really fucking tempted to write ‘if your primarily sexual characteristics are what you are most proud of of yourself, you need to think up a new personality’

    I categorically dont like anyone who looks like my countries typical beauty standard and/or has no bio/is not interested in conveying their personality…

    Any like I give a girl who is ‘standard beautiful’ just fades into the white noise and is a waste of time.

    To be clear, I Am not saying everyone in the beauty standard has no personality; but its more likely that such a person does not need to use their brain to get what they want. All the Better if they do, but it sure Doesn’t look that way if you get showered with attention when you got an empty bio…

    Subjective and for sure flawed rant is over




  • […]Plants vs. Zombies Jordan Adams, and Director Partnerships at EAX Matthew Angeleri.

    Adams would also send female coworkers pornographic videos and even reference them in EA Slack conversations

    While that seemed like an act of goodwill, Angeleri privately sexually harassed said female coworkers and even followed it up with videos of himself having lewd acts performed on himself.

    Why the article can’t just state what the allegations are and at whom is just annoying, so here you go.

    What confuses me a bit is the sentence just before the allegations to Angeleri:

    As for Matthew Angeleri, he invited his female coworkers to stay at his home with his wife while visiting Vegas where they were given free room and lodging. While that seemed like an act of goodwill, Angeleri privately sexually harassed said female coworkers and even followed it up with videos of himself having lewd acts performed on himself.

    Like… What? What is the logical connection between these two sentences? There could be months or years between those two events? How do these two relate? This reads as two completely separate events. So one could just be an act of goodwill and afterwards he decided to be a prick. Or, first the was a prick and then felt bad and offered the coworker a place to stay?

    And if the two events were concurrent that makes it immensely more creepy.