Me and a group of friends always have a yearly Minecraft stage but it always ends up with only a couple of us actually building and the others only join for the first day and then stop playing. When asked they always say that they just don’t know what or how to build so they just run around exploring and then come off.
Well typically (in my experience) if somebody tells you they don’t know what to do but don’t actually try to figure it out themselves, especially after many separate times, they aren’t really that interested in the game. Can’t force somebody to like what they don’t enjoy … Well I mean you can but that kind of gets into a morally messed up type of thing where your messing with their mind at that point lol.