• mindbleach@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Nah, “call me” always means “let’s make this a real-time social hierarchy game, because I’m good at exploiting verbal cues and expectations to shove people toward my desired goal.”

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        1 year ago

        The #1 reason in my experience. The only bosses who have ever said this to me are ones who were manipulative creeps where i made sure to keep a record (outside the company tools) of everything they ever said. It was never said to me like this, it was just standard operating procedure for that type.

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      1 year ago

      Yup those of us who are not good at bad faith conversations need to get good at recognizing when one is about to happen and insist on written.

      “We need to take this conversation offline” is a near-universal precursor to ethical dispensation.