Like the title says, I’m new to self hosting world. 😀 while I was researching, I found out that many people dissuaded me to self host email server. Just too complicated and hard to manage. What other services that you think we should just go use the currently available providers in the market and why? 🙂thank you
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Don’t host your own email server.
Just trust me.
In my opinion, cloud storage for (zero knowledge) backup. Your backup strategy should include a diversity of physical locations. I had a house fire a few years ago. Luckily, my data drives survived, but if they hadn’t, my cloud backup would’ve been invaluable.
People saying email, look into using external SMTP servers as relays. Your domain most likely comes with at least one email account with SMTP access. You can use that as a relay to send personal/business emails from your server using the provider’s reputable IP addresses.
Don’t self-host email SMTP or public DNS. They’re hard to set up properly, hard to maintain, easy to compromise and end up used in internet attacks.
Don’t expose anything directly to the internet if you’re not willing to constantly monitor the vulnerability announcements, update to new releases as soon as they come out, monitor the container for intrusions and shenanigans, take the risk that the constant updates will break something etc. If you must expose a service use a VPN (Tailscale is very easy to set up and use.)
Don’t self-host anything with important data that takes uber-geek skills to maintain and access. Ask yourself, if you were to die suddenly, how screwed would your non-tech-savvy family be, who can’t tell a Linux server from a hot plate? Would they be able to keep functioning (calendar, photos, documents etc.) without constant maintenance? Can they still retrieve their files (docs, pics) with only basic computing skills? Can they migrate somewhere else when the server runs down?
Password manager. While some may cache on your client devices, by and large if your server goes down, no passwords.
Vaultwarden with SyncThing is a robust combo from what I hear. Everything is local.
I don’t self host anything where it would impact me unduly if it went down while I was on holiday to the point where I’d have to break state and go fix stuff.
I don’t want to have to leave my beer or beach and head off to fix things like an email server, restore a password manager db etc. so anything like that which is critical to the point where an outage would prob have me do so means I pay someone else.
That’s an underrated razor. Not the whole decision tree for me, but a huge part of it.
A CDN
email service
I’m doing it on a bm I rent for 10 years now without issues with spf, dmarc, dkim and everything from scratch (no docker bloat)
Self-hosted internet is pain in the ass. Cellular services too.
Tor exit node. Too much legal stuff.
Aside from other stuff mentioned here about email. I always assumed I’d become a target for spam that I’d have a harder time filtering out to the point it stops being worth it to have a custom email address.
That and I can almost guarantee I would end up screwing up the backup of my inbox and losing everything rending the whole endeavour pointless.
Aside from other stuff mentioned here about email. I always assumed I’d become a target for spam that I’d have a harder time filtering out to the point it stops being worth it to have a custom email address.
Can’t work out how or why hosting it at home would mean more spam? Your email address gets on a list that gets pulled by spam merchants, hosting it at home doesn’t make any difference here.
It’s an assumption, not based on evidence. I’ve never done it and not looked into the software solutions so I assume a FOSS selfhosted email solution wouldn’t have the inbuilt antispam stuff that mainstream providers, say outlook, who host probably millions of email addresses would have.
The login page to your NAS.
E-Mail.
And maybe unpopular opinion:
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Any service that you use with port-forwarding, besides WireGuard.
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Password manager. I want to minimize complexity with my most important data (that’s why I’m using KeePass instead of Self-Hosted Bitwarden).
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