whatever narrative helps you feel better about getting your dick wet while you help someone hurt the person they supposedly care about.

A matter between them that has nothing to do with me or anyone else.

Stop pretending to be noble and at least admit its selfish. Its not like its new, cheating has been around for as long as monogamy.

Stop pretending it’s a moral question and just admit you’re insecure and convinced your partner would leave you for a better deal if they could find one.