Context, I’m 30 now and i will find women my age and up attractive, but 15 years ago a 35 year old women would never have been attractive to me.

As I’ve aged younger women are less and less attractive (thankfully)

But when I’m 60 will 60 year old women be attractive to me?

  • Paragone@lemmy.world
    715·
    11 months ago

    You eventually see different-dimensions of attractiveness…

    Young women’s simple vitality is like a breath of fresh-air in the eyes, after living in the smoggy downtown, – but … their minds are too blank.

    Sometimes you see gorgeous determination…

    Sometimes you see profound depth, pulling at one’s soul…

    Dwelling deeply in both yoga & meditation can do that, as I discovered a few years ago…

    ( I hadn’t known it’d be visible until seeing it! : )

    Sometimes you see delightfully ferrocious multiple-intelligences in a woman…

    but our world is so systematic about stomping-out girls’ & womens’ LivingValidity, LivingWorth, LivingPotential, & LivingOpportunity, that it’s too horribly common to see only 1 dimension of pulling-one’s-Eternity-to-them, for me, anyways…

    I’m committed to ripping my Soul/CellOfGod from the endless-churn-of-OceanOfPhenomena/UniversesStream.

    Solitude, Dwelling Within: war against my unconscious-ignorance.

    Forever.

    Someday one of the someones/personalities/lives that this-Soul has, will get the final breakthrough…

    Someday, UniverseContainment will be broken, for this Soul/continuum.

    Enlightenment can happen: the basic foundation-realizations exist, so therefore the rest of the structure, already-described long ago, must also exist.

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