• peopleproblems@lemmy.world
    535·
    10 months ago

    So ive put a lot of thot into this, and after going through what I did with my ex wife, I think it wouldn’t be a problem so long as

    A. I know about it.

    B. I get access to it and all paid content

    C. No one else appears in it. This covers the whole “well that was an old video I uploaded” scenario too.

    D. The relationship is otherwise secure.

    E. But the real problem would be someone with an onlyfans wanting to date me.

    • Bunnylux@lemmy.worldEnglish
      654·
      10 months ago

      It’s fine to not want to date someone with an onlyfans, but I feel like the guys who go out of their way to say it usually have other red flags about

      • HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.worldEnglish
        135·
        10 months ago

        Basically men who: —

        Could never get a woman that hot

        Get jealous easily

        Don’t like women having agency over their sexuality

        Don’t like women having agency over themselves full stop

        • afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
          1·
          10 months ago

          Right I don’t see where you get the ability to mindread people nor guilt people into being in a relationship that they don’t want to be in.

    • HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.worldEnglish
      31·
      10 months ago

      I wouldn’t mind C, so long as it’s someone where all 3 of us are willing to have some fun together privately anyway