Or, would you say most women actually perfer submissive men?

To be more specific, I’m talking about men who are submissive in their role in the relationship as a partner and also sexually.

It’s an interesting, I guess, maybe taboo sort of topic that I would like opinions on.

Thank you for reading.

  • TexMexBazooka@lemm.ee
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    10 months ago

    In my experience, on the whole, no. I’ve found being a submissive man actively repulses many women, some will entertain it but aren’t into it, and a very small minority enjoy being dominant- and a significant number of those charge for it.

    Pro dommes wouldn’t be a thing if submissive men were more universally accepted.

    There’s all kinds of reasons for this and there is no one size fits all answer. I speak only from my experience.

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      10 months ago

      This is my experience too. Thank you for telling the truth.

      A friend who was into the kink scene once told me there were definitely dominant women around. But then we did a scene together, and since then I don’t trust that guy’s conception of sex at all. His whole thing was to torture me. Honestly I don’t think the sex was even a thing for him. He’d be perfectly happy just hurting people for the mob or something.