Hi Lemmy,
I’m organising a funeral, and one of the ideas that has come up is for people to write memories on a balloon and let them go. However, I’ve also heard that they often end up in trees etc and are terrible for the environment.
Is there such a thing as environmentally safe balloons? Other suggestions are also welcome.
Alternative: plantable wildflower seed cards you can write on and then plant and grow flowers
This is a great suggestion, thank you :)
I’ve been to a funeral where the guests wrote their farewells on slips of paper, which were then anonymously read by an officiant before being placed in a large ceramic pot with a small fire. It was much better than the traditional “Would anyone like to say something” followed by uncomfortable silence. People were much more willing to write down their thoughts for someone else to read.
Sorry for your loss.
You can use bio-degradable balloons but there is no guarantee they will not end up strangling birds or rendering squirrels immobile. Maybe something that could start degrading some hours after you release it? It might end up safely popped midair without ruining the lives of wildlife.
But let me just add: I think you should not do this at all. It’s too risky to do with traditional balloons, and it might be hard to find these “real/verified” biodegradable balloons, plus no guarantee they actually do what the backside says.
and it might be hard to find these “real/verified” biodegradable balloons
Also, “biodegradable” often means “in recycling facilities in a controlled environment using special machines and processing” when it comes to “biodegradable plastics” and not “just throw them anywhere and nature will handle it”.
there is no guarantee they will not end up strangling birds or rendering squirrels immobile
At least they’ll decompose along with the body 🙄
Always a silver lining… of plastic around a bird’s neck.
Sorry for your loss
Another thing that I’m not seeing people mention is helium balloons wandering to places like power substations and/or power lines, causing outages or even fires/explosions depending.
I liked what someone else said about writing thoughts or stories and having them read anonymously.
The other comment touched on balloons so I had some other suggestions based on things that other cultures have done
Would lanterns be ok? They follow a similar principle, and they might be made of more biodegradable materials (paper lanterns).This isn’t something I’m familiar with though- There’s also the idea of setting something biodegradable ‘to sail’ on the water. Little paper boats with messages on them should be possible, and it would be easier to write something on them. You’d need a lake, and you’d need to check if the type of paper will dissolve, but it still feels better to me than balloons
Sorry for your loss
Lanterns are a pretty significant fire hazard, i’d avoid those too
Good point yes
If you mean the floating lanterns they’re usually made with wire and are a hazard to wildlife and domestic animals, as well as creating litter.
They may be made entirely of wood and paper, but as pointed out, fire hazard is still a thing
Lanterns are a plague on farmers unfortunately. We’ve picked out quite a few from hedges over the years, it’s just littering with extra steps.
Paper boats on a lake or river?
Yeah… balloons end up in the sea and frequently turtles eat them thinking that their jellyfish. Dead sea turtles have been found stuffed full of plastic bags and balloons.
Paper lanterns end up setting things on fire far away.
Could you perhaps stop the magical disposable up-in-air thinking and do something else? Like write wishes on pieces of bark and hide them in a forest to break down harmlessly?
It’s not magical thinking at all, ceremonies like that provide genuine feelings of relief and catharsis for participants.
Sorry I missed the funeral part earlier.
I still don’t think balloons or fire lanterns are in any way responsible.
Paper boats are generally ok as they breakdown pretty quickly.
rent a wall and provide cans of spray paint for people to leave inspiring tags.
then hire a company to clean the wall in a few days.
If you need balloons, latex is probably the way to go, natural material that should be fine to release.
Keep in mind some things labeled latex are made of synethic materials and therefore don’t decompose.
I haven’t seen that in stores or online but also haven’t looked. Should be possible to make i feel with the evolution of bioplastics.
An alternative is paper lanterns. I’ve seen versions that at least claim they’re safe in that they can’t start a forest fire. With the Chinese New Year coming up they should be easy to find.
