I lay out all my problems on the table pretty immediately, so I wouldn’t say surprised by, but probably least expected would be that for a guy my sex drive is very low. I’ve been about half to a quarter as driven as any girl I’ve been with.

About two months into dating my now-wife we came across a street piano. I sat down and started playing which blew her mind. She had no idea that I could play. Somehow it hadn’t come up (I’m pretty out of practice) but she acted like it was a big secret I was keeping or something. It was kind of fun to surprise her even though I didn’t do it on purpose.

Usually minor talents, knowledge, or the like. I.E. I can sew, knit, and crochet fairly well. I also know a decent amount about makeup and hair as well as am able to help apply (make-up) pretty well too.

I spent a decent amount of time helping with those things growing up and helping past partners too. It’s fun to help them get all gussied up! They have to do the color matching though. I’m absolutely terrible with that.

That I exist. And that we’re in a relationship.

It’s a love-hate thing. You wouldn’t get it…