So she’s kind of been reluctant in people knowing where she lives. And from my understanding you can just leave if you want but when it comes to her house. And since yeah it’s her house I do wonder where the boundary lays. So I am an adult yes and my mom is out right now with my sister taking care of me and staying around the house which has me worried but she said she would be back either Sunday or Monday and I’m planning on taking my chances Sunday. But seriously what is the rules as it comes down to there are cameras my sister has access to so I think she might see me leaving anyway and question me on this. So what exactly are my rights as an adult? Can someone pick me up in the driveway and we just leave together and then come back home? I do think even if I leave and come back home that can show some form of trust and then I can eventually tell my mom what I did when she gets back home. I even hope I can use my recent birthday as an excuse to start dating. But the main point I want to bring up is if I can tell someone where I live and have them pick me up outside the house?
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Someone who is young, still at home, and has an overly controlling parent is trying to go on a date. They’re asking if it’s legal. They’re concerned their siblings will rat them out.
You don’t sound like an adult.
this reads like a post written by a paranoid sovcit
It reads like some who is a victim of abuse.
I would have downvoted this if I didn’t worry about OP’s safety
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Yes, of course that’s allowed. Be aware that if you’re name of not on the lease or deed that your mother can kick you out though. Depending on where you live you may have less rights if you aren’t paying rent. In the US it doesn’t matter if you’re paying rent and they’d have to go through a formal eviction process. While of hope your mother wouldn’t kick you out for going on a date, the situation already seems extreme. But yes, you’re legally allowed to do this.
you on a conservatorship or house arrest or something?
If it’s your house and you pay the bills you can make the rules, if isn’t your house and you pay no bills you will have to follow the rules, it doesn’t matter how much old you are actually.
I’ve become 25.
I think there is some context here you didn’t mention. If you’re 25, why is your sister taking care of you?
If isn’t your house, at least you pay the bills or a part of it? If you are there living WO paying anything you will not get any benefits IMO.
Edit: there is a big difference between living with your parents and living from your parents.
