I was playing a Minecraft realm I had recently joined called war zones smp, it’s pretty fun but something happened recently that is making me re concider playing in this realm

So in the town I live in with a few people someone started a raid when only 3 people were online, the person who started the raid ran away so me and the other guy had to fight the raid, during the raid the other guy ran into someone’s house for safety and a creeper followed him, the house blew up and chests got exploded, apart from that we defeated the raid and I didn’t die once

The owner of the realm and the owner of the house that got blown up once they figured out we had done a raid and their house got blown up by accident let me remind you, they threatened to start a Danm war with us over it, and demanded we give them all the emeralds and totems we got as payment for using their villagers for the raid, and was also angry about the chests but all that got lost was some potions which we offered to get back, even after offering to help out they were still pissed and wanted to fight us about it

The creeper explosion was an accident and without us fighting the raid that **** the other guy started, the damage could have been much worse, I think they should be thankful we fought the raid but they are just angry for some reason