This season of 90 Fiance is the second one I’m watching, which means it’s also my first time seeing returnees such as Kenny and Armando and Yohan and Danielle. My partner, who is a big fan and has watched all seasons, told me Danielle was horrible in her first one. I don’t know to what extend, but is it really a big enough reason for the community to constantly defend Yohan and say she deserves everything happening to her?
I personally have no sympathy for Yohan, he is an entitled little boy that doesn’t understand how life in a relationship/not living at mom’s work, that wants everything right now, right here, as if money was falling from trees. He’s clearly with her entirely for the money and it makes me sad for her.
Not saying Danielle may not be bad herself, again, I don’t know anything form her outside of that season, but can’t we at least settle with “they’re both terrible” instead of making it look like Yohan’s behaviour is completely fair and justified.
Danielle’s sin is that she told Yohan that she would get him a greencard and that they would live in the USA together so that he could make enough money to send back to his family, but instead she showed up in the DR for a “visit” and dropped it on him that she was moving there.
Was it a shitty move? Absolutely. Does she deserve the level of hate she gets (especially after what an absolute douche nugget he’s turned out to be)? Absolutely not.