• MimicJar@lemmy.world
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    I always assume people doing this are unhinged/crazy and I definitely don’t want to deal with that.

    Sometimes they look nice enough.

    Usually what happens is myself and everyone else on the train look at each other, have a shared look of “Morons? Am I right?” and then when that person leaves, we all share a group laugh.

    So I guess what I’d say is, if you do this, know that everyone is laughing at you. If you say you don’t care, that’s a lie, you do care, that’s why you’re doing what you’re doing. This is not positive attention, this is negative attention. Please take a moment and reflect to be a force for positivity and not negativity.

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      Some guy got stabbed on the subway in Toronto a few months back because he asked a guy playing music to turn it off. It really is a crazy world out there.

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      9 months ago

      Genuinely not necessarily true. I used to do this when I was younger. It wasn’t because I wanted attention, I just like the feeling of being surrounded by music

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    The venn diagram of people who play music on speakers in public and people who are a thin thread away from stabbing you is a circle.

    Also, I live in the US, so the medical fees for getting stabbed is not worth the risk.

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      Also, I live in the US,

      The first paragraph made that clear.

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      9 months ago

      Americans who want to confront but can’t afford medcare 🤝 Swedes who have full access to medcare but are afraid of social interaction

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          This has happened in Germany, too.
          I’m not going to try and educate other people anymore. Too many people now explode without warning at the slightest perceived criticism in public.

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              9 months ago

              Free my ass. Tax payer funded. If you’re going to support something, at least be honest about it.

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                Nothing in life is free. I guess we should just get rid of the word. Who doesn’t know that “free healthcare” is paid with taxes? I obviously mean no unexpected bills or denied healthcare. Nobody has to chose between food or medication. Obviously…

                Do you also comment about the word literally and figuratively being synonyms?

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                  Literally, it’s an important point that seems to be lost on many that believe if we just tax the top 10% (who pay 90% of total tax revenue) even more, we can fix all our problems. Every country with socialized healthcare requires every citizen to pay a significant tax to cover the cost. If people are not willing to pay for it, they shouldn’t be advocating for it. But first they have to be educated on the reality of the cost. So yeah, stop saying free because many have no clue.

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          9 months ago

          Not just America. I saw this on the DB to Strasbourg, drunk middle aged woman spitting vile at each person who passed her.

          You really wanna handle that?

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    Why is it always the worst rap music imaginable? Like, I’m a hip hop fanatic, old school, new school, trap, g funk, boom bap, conscious, etc. But why is it the most asinine “i took a xanny now i’m fucking your girl” type shit?

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    I’ve tried this. Guy next to me was playing a video game on full blast that I can hear over my noise cancelling headphones. I asked him if he could turn the sound down.

    He said “F you! This is my console. I do what I want! You’re the only one complaining so shut the f up”…

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      IMHO you would have been within your rights to yank that guy’s console out of his hands and smash it.

      Of course the risk escalating wouldn’t be worth it, but you’d have the moral high ground at least.

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        Someone being obnoxious does not give you the right to damage their property.

        This is an absurd and extremely juvenile take.

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    Start up your Bluetooth speaker. (Buy one if you haven’t got one. It doesn’t have to be good, just loud.)
    Ramp it up to 11.
    Start the most annoying obnoxious sound you have, (that you have already downloaded).
    Stand next to the person playing the shitty music and aim the speaker at then.
    When they complain about your annoying noise you reply, “You started it.”

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    Yeah I don’t need the tweaky dude stabbing me on the train because I didn’t like his music, but thanks

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    German here. A woman was starting to play loud music on her phone while I was sitting at a bakery having a cup of coffee, trying to relax from a bad morning. I opened Spotify, checked for this song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PDBDtIOxUsI Every Maaaaaamaaaa I was singing loudly along. She lasted half of the song then fled the scene, even left her coffee on the table. My ears were bleeding, but it was worth it.

    Fight them with the most terrible old people song you know in your country, be aware that it might hurt you too.

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    You better have the gun from the meme if you’re gonna make a habit of this.

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    I’ve had the idea to get a handful of headphones at a dollar store and hand them out whenever someone is playing their music out loud. I’ve never done it, though.

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    Yeah I mean I’m not much of a fighter and I’ve gotten put in the hospital for something similar, so now I avoid confrontation like the plague.